(500) days of summer

like the narator said.this is not a love story.but this is a story about boy meets girl.boy falls in love.girl doesn’t.and i guess this film was highly dedicated to boys.really.almostly talks about boys feeling about love.and because im a girl,i really blind about that things and that makes this film quite useful :p

tom hansen.modest boy (but super-sweet,i guess) is the one being central in this film.all along the film,tells about 500 days of tom hansen ‘befriend’ with summer finn,cute girl which i found have face like katy perry.hehe.from the beginning,tom knew that summer was his only-one.tom is so much falling in love with this girl.wonder why.but i guess because of her beauty and her special behaviour,which is having the same hobby with him.the couple both love the smiths,beatles,knight rider tvshow,etc.things that common people rarely love.but sadly summer didn’t feel the same.summer didnt want any relationship with anyone.she didn’t wanna be anybody’s girlfriend.

but the story goes on.tom struggle so hard to be close with summer.he gives all the chances and opportunity for her.but the girl see it as just the way she’ll having fun.they started going out together,hanging out together,and doing some ‘nasty’ things together.

but like i said before,from the beginning summer always says that she didnt seek anything serious with this kind of friendship.tom said yes.but as the time goes by,tom feels uncomfortable with it.i feel him though.because things that they do together is not kind of things a common friend will share to each other.like kissing in copy room,holding hand in public,even shower s**~jiahahaha.love this!~

tom wants to give ‘label’ to this kind of friendship.he plainly just want consistency with her.he just didnt want if someday he wakes up,and summer feels different to him.

and the story’s goin on and on.eventually (warning,spoiler alert!) summer left him.dumped him.left him so destructive and messed up screwed up.she married with someone else.what a whore.

by the way,as a girl,this film is quite give me ‘knowledge’ about what boys feel when they’re loving someone.they can be so deep.really deep.and sometimes turn to destructable.just like tom hansen,which i found that during 500 days he befriend with summer,things that he remember are only the good-ones.what a stupid boy (but sweet.hehehe).he is so much hail her.and become so much frustrated (and destructive) when she left him.

and girl,sometimes (or all-times) can be total heartless bitch.just like summer.she is total douche.sweet and nice and funny and everything,kind of boy like him,she dumped without a grace.i mean after she took all the advantages from him,all the fun from him,then she just dumped him in garbage like hell.total whore.kenapa gw yang marah2 ya.hahahaha.menjiwai ini namanya :p

okay,thats all.finally,this is amazing movie.good for boys and great for girl to watch.very recommended!

hidup adalah seni dalam mencoba segala hal…

Salah satu dosen pernah bilang dalam salah satu kuliah, bahwa hidup itu seni dalam mencoba segala hal. Manusia diciptakan unik. Berbeda satu dengan lainnya. Karena itu, setiap manusia harus berusaha mencari “tempat terbaik” dimana seharusnya dia berada. Tempat itu harus benar-benar mengakomodasi keunikannya. Hingga dia berhasil mencari perkembangan dirinya yang paling tinggi. Caranya? try and error…mencoba-coba hingga menemukan titik paling nyaman untuk dirinya. Hemmm…it sounds great. Jadi bagaimana dengan anda? Apakah anda telah berada di tempat yang benar-benar membuat anda berkembang? Keep trying…

NOBODY’S PERFECT (i mean it!)

so much things happen to me this week.kinda frustating though.i want to reflect it but i’m consufed where i should start.why dont you start from the one that bothered you the most?nice suggestion.
lets thinking about our life (bizarre topic!).our life path.our working hour.is it suck?people always compare things in their life with others.always.and this is what i called the most destructive habit on earth.i mean come on,nobody’s perfect.and people always never been perfect.no matter how hard you try.you will always find someone more perfect than you.so it’s waste of time.people are unique (my bestfriend always say that) with their own path of life.with their own specialty.and of course,with their own problem.so lets just live our life and stop feeling sucks about it.just do our best.never ever compare your life with others.i promise you,it never came back positive.it always came back negative.i think i’ll be the one who stand in frontline doing this.maybe you should try feeling grateful with everything that happens to your life.look how you’ve come to this.how much tear and blood you spend to come this way.it’s hard.it’s really damn hard,right.so dont waste it all away by compare it with what you called ‘perfect life’ owned by others.you just dont know it well.how others come to their own results.
i bet this is comforting :D